Your ex is your ex for a reason. There are probably some things that either you or she did, or the both of you did to cause the break up. There are things in your control that you can take care of to make sure you have the best chance at getting her back. Here are some ways to get your ex girlfriend back and hopefully win her heart again.
Avoid any contact at least for now.
One of the things that are hard to do at first is to avoid seeing or talking to your ex. The automatic knee jerk reaction is to call and stop by, but really what this is doing is pushing her further away. Calling constantly is annoying and pushy, which will cause her to get upset and angry, which you don’t want. There needs to be some space and separation between the two of you. The space is there to see what the both of you really want. During this time you need to make sure that she misses you, which will take me to my next point.
Find ways to make her miss you.
You can find ways to do this on your own, but some ways are to start dating again or start changing the negative things that were affecting your relationship. Dating will cause her to see what she is missing. Changing will cause her to want what she once had, this time it is even better. I am not suggesting being manipulative, simply moving on with your life. This small act, while it may seem trivial will affect your relationship in leaps and bounds.
Focus on the positive things.
When you finally do reconnect with your ex, you need to take things slow and focus on the positive things. Don’t bring up all of your problems from the past as it will only bring up bad memories. Focus on the positive things and you will be ale to move forward with your relationship.
Avoiding contact, making her miss you and focusing on positive things are all key steps to get your ex back. They may seem like little baby steps, but believe me, they all add up and can mean a world of difference when trying to get your ex back into your life. If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back you will need to come up with a plan and stick to it. Having a plan will give you the best chance to win her heart back and getting back to the way things used to be.
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